Why Are You So Defensive?

Marriage Uncensored with Dave and Christie

Few things kill intimacy like defensiveness. If we can't communicate with one another without getting our backs up, we will quickly come to the place where we are fearful of revealing our true thoughts and feelings to our partner. Dave, Christie and their guest Dr. Steven Stosny discuss the dangers of this great enemy of real relationships.

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Episode 606 - Originally Aired November 16, 2008